"Why Calling Men Can Make It Or Break It
With Him"

It’s no secret. Like everything else in dating and relationships there is a skill to calling, texting and emailing men.

Why?

Because men are different to women.

"Many dates or relationships fail when the woman starts calling, texting or emailing the man"

Some women without really even realising it before it’s too late go overboard with their communication devices and push their man away. They simply call him the wrong way.

"What Is The Biggest Problem You Have With
Calling Men?"

• Don't know if you should call him after your first date or not?
• Don't know what to say to him?
• Don't know how often to call him?

Calling men can be heart pounding, stressful, frustrating and nerve wrecking.

You’ve met a great guy, you’ve gone on a wonderful date with him and now as the good girl you are you should be waiting for him to call you?

Am I right?

Some women may argue and ask, “Why can’t I call him first?”

Well if a guy has asked you out then it’s you, who should be waiting for the next call from him. If you call him first you’ll most likely put yourself in a lower position and to him that comes across as needy and anxious which really is a turn off for men.

Men like to be the initiator in this situation and if he doesn’t call he’s most likely not interested. So why chase him? Even if you really liked him there are plenty of other men out there and you never know he still might change his mind - if he’s not too late. Let him chase you not the other way around.

So why is something as easy as calling men, text messaging and emailing such a delicate situation?

As I mentioned before men and women are different. Men come from Mars and women come from Venus especially when it comes to communication.

Nothings worse than to call up a man you really like and are interested in, only then to get the response of him not being very interested on the other end of the line.

"Calling Men Tips"

1. As you know, first wait for the man to call you after your first date with him or even after your relationship breakup.

So after he’s called what do you say?

2. First of all drop everything you’re doing so you can focus on the conversation with him and you’re not multi-tasking.

3. Talk softly yet confidently with him and make sure you smile.

4. He’ll probably ask how you are and this is a good time to say, “I’m feeling really good today and you?” Put the ball back in his court and use the word feeling as it is a powerful word. By expressing him how you feel you open your heart to him.

5. Don’t drag out the conversation for too long as you want to avoid babbling unnecessary stuff with him. Stay in control of the conversation.

6. If he’s calling you for the first time after a breakup and you want to get him back - do not ask him anything about the breakup in your first conversation with him. If he brings it up just say to him, “It feels great to hear from you, we can talk about this another time.” He’ll feel grateful and the pressure is off him for that time.

7. Remember your talking to a man your interested in and not your girlfriends. So don’t tell him what happened yesterday on your favourite TV show, gossip, ex boyfriends and talking about emotional details in your life. Men get very uncomfortable with emotional pain and it’s not necessary in the first after date phone conversation with him. Be yourself and don’t try and be overflirtateous with him.

8. A conversation with him should flow naturally. So talk about neutral topics and ask him questions about himself. Men love to talk about themselves. Ask him about his work, sports and interests.

9. Don’t reveal too much about yourself as you want to keep him curious too. Men like to work to get you. If you’re too easy they lose interest quicker. So let him chase you.

10. Once you begin dating and talking more on the phone remember to always keep him curious. Though you’ll feel excited don’t call him more than he calls you. Let him call you more than you do. Remember to continue taking care of you and your life and not let him become your focus otherwise you will run the risk of losing him very quickly. Men sense this and are quickly turned off as you come across to him as desperate and needy.

Are there more questions you need answered about calling men, texting and emailing men?

Questions such as...

• What goes through a man's mind when you call him
• How the way you handle calls and emails will make him want you more
• What to do about emailing - does email count as a phone call?
• What to do about text messages and instant messages
• What are the real reasons that men don't call?
• How can you get him to ask for your number?
• What should you do when he tells you to call him?
• If he hasn't called for a while, and you run into him later, how should you act?
• When your relationship becomes solid and lasting, can you finally relax about the calling issue now?
• How to tell if he will call you back
• How to make him want you in his life more, simply by the way you handle phone calls and emails

Discover all this and more in www.callingmen.com by Mimi Tanner and have the irrestible power to keep him interested in you and have him continue to call you.