"There Are 2 Major Mistakes Women Make With Men. Take A Few Moments To Read Men’s Minds And Reconnect Your Relationship Literally Overnight, With Easy Relationship Rescue Tips!"

You’ll feel great and so will he, once you learn how to reconnect your relationship. Seriously it’s so much easier than you think; all you have to do is tell him how you feel. But first you have to know...

Why is he becoming distant with you?

It’s a confusing and painful situation to be in.

I know because like so many women in a relationship or marriage I felt the same way.

Confused, Hurt, Unloved and Very Alone

• You feel like you’re the only one in your relationship, desperately trying to keep the relationship communication flowing.
• You constantly feel like you have to do something, anything to bring you and your partner closer.
• You feel anxious and numb inside because you don’t know what to say, do or feel. Your relationship communication is either arguing or avoiding one another because you've disconnected.
• You’re constantly analysing your partner, your relationship, trying to understand him, trying to make sense of it all.
• You give and give and get little in return of affection and attention. Instead you just get ignored or he’s plain rude to you!

My partner and I were emotionally disconnected and I couldn’t understand why

I did everything for him – cooked him good meals, looked pretty and sexy for him, cuddled up to him on the sofa (with no response back), tried to make conversation with him (little response), tried not to upset him in anyway. (walking on eggshells around him)

Then I got to a point where I got so overwhelmed with emotions I’d get upset with him. We didn't know how to argue with one another.

"You're stuck. He's withdrawing and you're not moving forward. Sound familiar? You're anxious and screaming inside “What do I do?” Well you can do something and it's easier and more effective than you think"

We became very distant because we stuffed our feelings pretending everything was fine until we'd erupt with anger and shut down again. A never ending cycle.

Many times whatever you say to your partner comes across as criticising him, being angry, telling him what to do instead of using the most important form of communication. Actually telling him how you feel.

This may be the other way around to - your partner criticising you, telling you what to do, being rude to you. What ever it may be, if he's making you feel uncomfortable, disrespected or hurt you still have to tell him how he is making you feel.

Women want to feel loved, respected and be intimate with their partner. The only way to his heart is if you learn to express yourself with relationship rescue tips feeling messages. You can learn more in Have The Relationship You Want and bring him close again.

I was making a huge mistake and what's more a mistake many women make.

I was so focused on my partner and our relationship I’d lost myself.

I’d hide away in our bedroom or bathroom with a box of tissues trying not to let him hear my sobs of tears. I felt at an end with our relationship so many times and I didn't know what to do. Nothing seemed to work and he just seemed to care less and less.

Everything I was doing was actually driving him further and further away from me

I was clingy, emotional, insecure – oh my how did I let that happen? It happens and you don’t even realise it, until you wake up to yourself.

Does this kinda sound like your relationship? If it does then stay with me because we don't stop there. To repair your relationship you need very effective relationship rescue tips.

Let's do it...

"Men withdraw when women become too emotional and overfunction"

Instead of telling him how you feel you stuff down your feelings or you tell everyone else around you, how you feel.

Only then to come across as emotional, needy, angry, upset with him. He feels these emotions coming from you and withdraws, shuts down, blocks you out. Why?

Because he knows you're angry, then he begins to feel angry at you for making him feel angry. He's angry at himself because he upset you. You feel angry with him, yourself and then you both end up feeling guilty and you both have know idea how to resolve this toxic pattern that is poisoning your relationship. A pattern that repeats itself.

I didn't know how to respond to any of these situations effectively and became emotional.

Response is the key to resolving conflicts.

Then I'd try to get my partner to open up by trying to please him, coming across to him as needy. Only to watch him shut down even more and I was more confused than ever. He'd pull and I'd push.

Instead, yes I'll say it again...simply telling him how he made me feel but without criticising or blaming him.

That's very important...

If you make him feel like everything is his fault, he'll just try to challenge you and you're back at square one.

"A relationship isn't about winning it's about respecting, communicating, listening, supporting one another and having compassion"

Before you talk to your girlfriends or family about your frustrations and anger with your partner - take some time out for you. Go to the gym, take a walk or do whatever makes you feel good. Then talk to your partner about what is upsetting you and how you feel before resentment builds up.

And that’s what I did.

Oh what a relief. Finally relationship rescue tips that actually reconnect your relationship.

The relationship rescue tips from Have The Relationship You Want started to work instantly.

Once you begin to recognise your demon patterns in your relationship you can begin to change them. Change them by speaking, acting and responding differently with these relationship rescue tips of feeling messages in Have the Relationship You Want.

Just like I did with the relationship rescue tips I learnt from Rori Raye The Relationship Coach.

"Feeling dialouge messages about you"

“I’ve been really depressed lately because I’m so unhappy with my (job, just being at home with housework and kids...) and I’m feeling (overwhelmed/ lost/ uninspired/ I don’t know what to do?) What do you think?”

"My friends were thinking of having a girl’s weekend away while the husbands look after the kids. I feel like I need a little break and I'd be so happy to spend some time with the girls again? What do you think about me going?"

"I feel so good and relaxed eating out with you again."

"That kiss felt sooo good."

"If your partner is letting his frustration out on you or making you feel uncomfortable then tell him how it makes you feel and why you’re feeling that way"

For example, relationship rescue tips in communicating. Techniques I learnt and have used in my relationship issues.

“I feel hurt and attacked when I’m spoken to in that tone of voice and I don’t like it. I don’t want to be told what to do. What do you think?”

"I feel blamed, criticised and very hurt when this anger is taken out on me. What do you think?"

“I feel hurt and uncomfortable when my ideas are not accepted into this relationship. This is important to me and I want to be part in this decision making, otherwise I feel left out in this relationship, what do you think we should do?”

“I’m feeling a lack of affection lately and it makes me feel a bit lonely, what do you think?”

Generally you'll find a pattern of relationship communication conversations and feelings repeating themselves, resulting in you and your partner disconnecting.

"There are 2 mistakes women make and these are the 2 things men absolutely hate"

• Being told what to do
• And not letting you trust him

Men hate to be mothered or nurtured. Afterall, they already have a mother. When men are told what to do, you come across as his mother and it makes him feel as though you don’t trust how he’s doing things. He just sees you angry or upset with him; instead all he wants to do is make you happy.

If you’re constantly trying and trying just like I was – it becomes exhausting.

"Men want to be excited, inspired, stimulated - WOWED by their girlfriend, wife or partner"

How do you that? ... Just STOP Doing Everything For Him!

"I finally started to take care of ME again and I felt sooo relaxed around my partner"

I became my own focus and didn’t just focus on my partner, our relationship and our problems anymore.

• Do not talk so much out of anxiety and do everything for him
• Do more of your own things and what makes you feel good
• Tell him how you feel about everything - positive or negative without criticising him, calmly and softly.

"When your self esteem goes up you become stronger and you attract him rather than repel him"

Here are some other effective relationship rescue tips.

He will be drawn to you when you refuse to put up with is bad behaviour.

Men will either get upset because he is upset with you or it really has nothing to do with you but you receive the impact of his bad moods.

That's when you just have to be honest with him and tell him, short and sweet how he makes you feel. I don't like this bad mood feeling coming across it makes me feel really uncomfortable, what do you think?

He may respond and come towards you and apologise, hug you or he may just feel really embarrassed and not say or do much at all. If this happens then don't say anything.

Instead turn around and do your own thing for the day or just kindly "ignore" him for the day.

Don't cry or talk to him. Just go about and do your own thing as if he wasn't even there. Soon he'll be making conversation with you. When he does then answer his questions calmly and softly. Don't give him more. No sex, hugs, kisses. Let him chase you around for the day. Play a bit hard to get.

Men love it when you're not easy and your confident but still vulnerable, playful and sweet. Soon he will be making the move for conversation or a kiss. This works like a charm for me. If my partner has been moody or letting out his frustrations on me, I simply refuse to be his target.

• I tell him how I feel - I don't like this bad mood feeling coming across it makes me feel really uncomfortable, what do you think?
• I kindly ignore him for the day as I don't need his negative vibe bringing me down.
• I go about doing what I enjoy or have to do and I let him chase me for the day. By the evening he's as sweet as pie.

I know your partner can sometimes bring you down and make you feel very insecure about yourself and your relationship. The secret here is not to give him that power. Be and stay confident with yourself. Take care of you and do what makes you feel good. Love who you are and even tell yourself this everyday, "I am confident, attractive, wonderful and worthy."

These relationship rescue tips really work when you simply apply them. I immediately noticed a shift of change in our relationship with these powerful relationship rescue tips.

We were able to reconnect by simply knowing a few relationship rescue tips of the do's and dont's in a relationship and knowing our language of love.

Don't forget the most important of the relationship rescue tips...

"Do not lose yourself or withhold how you feel in your relationship"

Men are more attracted to women who are confident yet still vulnerable in their relationship and with themselves. This is exactly what happened to me and my relationship once I started applying the relationship rescue tips tools in Have The Relationship You Want.