"Understanding Men - What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy And Commitment!"
Finally the truth is out about understanding men! What do men really think about love, relationships, intimacy and commitment?
The burning questions we women constantly ask ourselves.
Men are pretty basic. They want to fix the problem or they don't think and talk much about "stuff", like women do.
Which for women is mind baffling. We then try to figure out what he thinks. Does he still love me? Why is he so unromantic? Does he want to commit to me and our relationship? Does he want to marry me? To name a few. Then we assume and wait for him to respond the way we actually want him to or at least hope he will. Only then to usually be disappointed when he doesn't.
"Men in general think of love differently to women"
"Love"
For women love to a man is a mixture of compassion, support, romance, kindness, passion, patience and many more ingredients of "sugar and spice."
The love a woman gives to a man is the love she wants from him in return. However, a mans love is so much more simple. If a mature man truly loves you, he may not shower you with as many flowers he did once before. Or as many sweet words and text messages like at the start of your relationship but love to a man means 3 things.
In short a mans love to a woman is about respect. When he feels respected his love will profess, protect and provide for you as Steve Harvey explains about understanding men in Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man.
If a man does these 3 P's as Steve calls it, not only does he show he loves you but is also a mature man. This was when I understood that even though my partner is not great with romance, feelings or words. His love to me is shown differently than how I show him my love. The 3 P's included.
Though men like to be acknowledged for professing, providing and protecting their woman. Women and men still need that emotional bond of love. Every couple has a way of expressing and interpreting their love to one another. However, for many couples it can get confusing when you don't understand his or her love language.
Find out your love language with this free quiz.
I found by appreciating my partners 3P's of love. Learning to discover his language of love and he my language of love. We began connecting on a whole new level of understanding and expressing our love for one another.
"Intimacy"
Intimacy is all about connecting. Again men and women connect differently in intimacy.
For a woman intimacy and connecting with her man is a candle-lit dinner for two, holding hands at the beach, kissing and cuddling on the sofa, foreplay and making love on satin bed sheets. Men again do all this because they know this is what women like. Men like it too but they could skip it all and jump right into those satin bed sheets and even forget the foreplay, if we let him.
Sex is very important to a man because this is how your man connects to you. How he shows it to you and feels the connection with you. If you want to know more about what men think about intimacy, sex and why some cheat then you must read the advice from Steve Harvey.
"Relationships and Commitment"
Relationships and commitment for a man develops, when he has decided in his heart and mind you are a keeper. You are a keeper when he can see himself settling down with you.
"It's not the guy who determines whether you're a thrower or a keeper - it's you," by Steve Harvey.
Think about it? You're dating and a man approaches you. You are the one in control if you allow him to buy you a drink or get your number.
Do you want to be the party girl and be played with by men (thrower) or do you want to be respected (keeper)? The choice in the end is yours because men will treat you the way you allow him to treat you whether you're flirting, dating, in a relationship or even in a marriage.
I hope you can begin to see why undersrtanding men is so important. Once you know more how he thinks, you act and respond differently to him. Making your relationship with him so much more relaxed with less conflict and more love.
In short a woman has to set her standards with her man.
Men need to be told what it is you want and even more so, what it is you don't want. (Don't just assume he'll know, he never will unless you tell him)
Yes it's scary at first, having to tell your man what it is you want or don't want from him and your relationship. What your expectations are but by understanding men better...
"There is a way to tell your man what it is you want or expect of him without criticising him. Something a woman easily does"
You can learn how to tell your man what you want from him without making him run for cover or building up his defences.
To be honest I actually discovered Act Like A Lady, Think like A Man on the Oprah show. (Check it out below)
Steve Harvey gives you an insight into his marriage with his wife, answers the most asked questions by women about understanding men. Sheds light on why men cheat, why some men are mamas boys, find out if he's a player or commitment material and the truth about men and sex and why he can't get enough of it from you.
If your man is withdrawing from you. He's not treating you the way you want to be treated. Or you just want to understand that big question mark ??? you see when you look at him, then this is the best book about understanding men overall.
And this is only the beginning about understanding men...
Understanding Men With Steve Harvey - Check This Out!
