"The Warning Signs Of A Breakup Will Help You Get Him Back Or Help You Move On"
Warning signs of a breakup?
The warnings signs of a breakup are the red flags we often try to ignore rather than face.
I remember the time when my previous relationship of 7 years was coming to an end. I tried so hard to ignore the red flags even though in my heart I knew something wasn’t right. The warning signs of a breakup happening were all there but to try and save my heart breaking I tried to ignore the red flags. Big mistake.
So what are the warning signs of a relationship breakup?
With men it’s actually quite obvious because men become very distant.
This is the first warning sign that something isn’t right in your relationship.
It doesn’t always necessarily mean he wants to breakup with you but whatever it is…
The sooner you notice the first warning signs of him withdrawing the better control you will have in
reconnecting with him.
Other times he may have made up his mind that he needs a breakup to sort himself out. Some men need that timeout for themselves to sort out their feelings and emotions. The more you pull back the better chance you will have of him coming back to you. This is where you need to know
how to get him back the right way - before you scare him off forever.
Often the way women think to get him back only pushes him further and further away.
It’s difficult to definitely predict what his intentions and actions will be when the warning signs of a possible relationship breakup are there.
But there are warning signs of a breakup you can look out for – the red flags in your relationship and
take control.
So what are some of the warning signs of a possible breakup. More importantly what can you do about it?
- Withdraws from your relationship
The first obvious sign as mentioned before is when he pulls right back from you and your relationship. He’s not as attentive anymore, doesn’t want to be around you, do anything with you anymore, ignores you or he’s just plain is rude to you. Find out how
you
can
reconnect with him.
- He acts secretively
He answers his phone and walks away from you and whispers, he doesn’t answer his phone call and he’s very protective of his phone around you. He can’t give you a straight answer to where he was or where he's going. Don't accuse him of cheating. It may or may not be that until you know the truth. He may just be planning a nice romantic get away for the two of you. If you're feeling he's acting secretively around you then calmly say to him - "Lately I've been feeling uncomfortable with this secrecy going on with (the phone, your whereabouts) is there anything I should know?" His response will tell you what's going on. Most likely if he gets really nervous, angry and or defensive something isn't right and he may just be hiding something unpleasant from you. He may have met someone else, he's lost interest and wants to move on or he's waiting for you to end it with him so he doesn't look like the #ss. Or maybe his secrecy is all a wonderful, big surprise he doesn't want you to know just yet. His response will then be more calm and reassuring. You'll know what is going on by his response when you listen to your heart.
- He's friends with another woman
He's getting too friendly with another woman and you don't
like
it.
This
is
you
how
you
invite him back into the relationship the two of you once had
before his new friend came into the picture.
- Sex is down to 0 or it just feels like "sex"
He loses total sexual interest in you and turns away from you in bed. Or the vibe between you and him in bed feels cold, angry, disconnected and unfortunately he’s more interested in satisfying his own selfish sexual need rather than truly caring for you sexually.
What do you do? Again you calmly tell him how you feel. For example "I feel lonely
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